The loss of loved one is a very sad and heavy load to bare. May you find comfort at John 5:28,29 where it helps us to see that our loved ones can live again, "all those in the the memorial tombs will hear his (Jesus) voice and come out." As we await that wonderful day , may we continue to look to Jehovah God to comfort us because according to Psalms 46:1 he is "a help that is readily found in times of distress." Please accept my deepest sympathy.