I'm so sorry to hear about the death of your young child. No matter what someone says the pain is very deep. The only way we can deal with it is relying on our Heavenly Father and having family and friends to comfort us. The Bible at 2Corinthians 1:3 "Praised be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of tender mercies and the God of all comfort, 4 who comforts us in all our trials so that we may be able to comfort others in any sort of trial with the comfort that we receive from God." I hope you find comfort from God's words.